Culture of conflict avoidance risking rising grievances for businesses

Fear of confrontation is fueling conflict avoidance in UK companies. Discover how HR can tackle rising grievances through cultural and leadership change.

A widespread fear of confrontation is driving a culture of conflict avoidance in UK businesses leaving HR at risk of dealing with a rising number of formal grievances. 

A survey* found that 43% of employers and HR professionals say fear of confrontation or escalation is the single biggest barrier to resolving disputes early. 

The data suggests that employees, including managers, are increasingly reluctant to address interpersonal issues with experts warning that this won’t be fixed through policy or procedure, but a cultural shift that spans the entire company. 

Alex Holmes, Employment Law Adviser & Solicitor at WorkNest said: “There is a growing tendency to not have difficult conversations due to a fear that it is confrontational or will cause an issue to exacerbate. However if handled correctly, it can actually de-escalate a situation and ensure a minor conflict doesn’t become more serious. 

“The knock-on effects of not efficiently dealing with minor conflicts are severe. It will impact employee wellbeing, productivity and retention as well increasing absences and potentially putting businesses at legal risk due to formal grievances.”

The top barriers to effective conflict management according to employers and HR professionals are: 

  • Fear of confrontation or escalation – 43%
  • Lack of training or conflict skills – 24%
  • Resistance to change – 20%
  • Limited organisational support – 8%
  • Unclear policies – 5%

The findings, from over 700 employers and HR professionals, reveal that conflict is often low-level and personal but response to issues can be slow or too procedural. 

The most common sources of conflict were reported as;

  • Personality clashes – 38%
  • Performance-related disputes – 26%
  • Line manager and employee conflict – 22%

Far fewer respondents said formal allegations such as bullying or discrimination were commonplace (10%). Instead its day-to-day tensions that may be overlooked affecting morale the most. 

Fear to tackle interpersonal issues or provoke emotional conversations is a cultural issue and a shift must therefore be driven from the top. However the data shows that often this isn’t the case as almost 1 in 5 (18%) HR professionals feel “very unsupported” by senior leaders in managing conflict. 

Wendy Lockhart, HR Consultant added: “HR must tackle conflict avoidance norms and encourage effective resolution of these low-level, personal conflicts. This can be done through upskilling line managers beyond policy, driving a resolution mindset with employees, normalising preventative and informal dialogue and ensuring that senior leadership understand their role in modelling the correct behaviour to enable real cultural change”

*From WorkNest

 

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